for anyone who knows Ronni personally, several things are obvious right off the bat:
1. she doesn't deserve this.
2. this can't be about God teaching her something or refining her like gold or anything like that.
if I'm wrong about 1 or 2, then i can only think that the rest of us are in serious trouble, relatively speaking. which leads me to the following conclusions:
1. i definitely deserve this.
2. (a) this is about me learning something or getting refined like gold or at least tin, and (b) i am a slow learner.
so in the interests of helping Ronni get better (which isn't happening at all yet, alas), i will detail for God the various things i have learned so far.
but that's going to have to wait 'til i can get back to this again...which could be a while...